5 No-Brainer Ways to Make People Respect You More

5 No-Brainer Ways to Make People Respect You More5 No-Brainer Ways to Make People Respect You MoreThe world is full of dreamers. Look around you and youll find there are plenty of people who spend a lot of time and money reading business and branding books or signing up to attend intensive retreats and motivational seminars.But lets be honest Even while these books, seminars, and articles may contain useful information, many of those who put in the effort to get motivated still dont find the success they want.Many times, its because of one simple (yet often overlooked) fact They turn others off. If youre one of those folks doing everything right and still not getting where it is you want to go, you may want to consider how youre coming across to those around you.Here are five ways to immediately polish your presence1. Carry Yourself With GraceWhat exactly does this mean? Lets look at three dictionary definitions of the word for a clueSmoothness and elegance of movementCourteous good willBring honor or credit to (someone or something) by ones attendance or participationWe live in a world where it seems dated to walk around with a gentle demeanor and a quiet pride. Do it anyway. When you carry yourself with the characteristics listed above, you stand out in a sea of self-congratulatory navel-gazers and those with brash, aggressive (and often misinformed) opinions. Walk, talk, and work with dignity, accountability, and dedication, and youll get more than attention- youll gain respect.2. Respect Those Around YouThis sounds like a filler phrase, but this extension of point number one couldnt be more valid. Respecting others makes room for the appreciation of their presence, wisdom, and right to be a human being making mistakes and learning lessons at their own pace. When you help to create a space where others can exist without feeling bullied or rejected, it shows that you recognize where you end and they begin. Remember this when youre in a position of power and w hen youre faced with a person whos testing your patience.Showing respect doesnt mean that you approve of every behavior or agree with every statement. It simply means that you dont allow your ego (or theirs) to strip your dignity away. There is power in not having to prove youre right in every situation, even when you are.3. Rock Those DetailsIts time to take some time to think about your personal brand as a person and professional. I dont care how smart, skilled, or charming you are- if you look, write, speak, or follow-up like a slob, youre going to turn people off. If youre lazy and dont carry your weight, no one will want to work with or vouch for you.What message are your clothes sending? How do your emails and texts read? Do you go the extra mile without being asked? Do you sound confident or timid when you speak? Are your sentences clear or stuffed with filler words? How do you greet and follow-up with people?The more you think about the way people experience interactions wit h you (from start to finish), the more control youll have over your reputation, relationships, and career.4. Dont Assume Others Have it EasyI once found myself talking with an athlete at the SNL studio where he welches hosting. The night before, wed gone out and dozens of people approached him with a look of total adoration in their eyes.He was clearly appreciative of his status as a revered athlete- it seemed glamorous. But he told me about some issues he was having in his personal life that could have been voiced by anyone else in my social circle.The lesson I learned was that it was easy to glorify those who make it and assume that their lives are smoother, more fun, and less stressful simply because theyve had certain wins we ache to experience. Were all working hard every day to achieve or maintain accomplishments that are meaningful (and lucrative) for us.5. Deal With Life Like a BossEven when you dont sweat the small stuff, life isnt always going to be a smooth ride. How you deal while on the bumpier parts of that ride will impact everything from your health and wellbeing to your reputation and your relationships with those around you.Plan ahead, stay flexible, and never lose your grit. Be willing to jump in and do what needs to be done to move things into a better direction, and do your best to keep the tone low and steady, the gaze on the prize, and know that the only thing hitting that red panic button will do is shut everything down.This article was originally published on Inc. It has been republished here with permission.